Saturday, June 27, 2009

Last day in Korea "Farewell Ceremony" - June 27, 2009



Hi Christine and Derek,

Waiting here in front of the gate of our flight AC064 to Toronto via Vancouver. We will have to bring our luggage through Customs in Vancouver like you said.
We said our goodbyes at the farewell ceremony where we received some goodbye gifts. It was an emotional goodbye.
Rev. Soh will stay in Korea, as well as Rosa Park. The Black family went to Japan and the Muther's left yesterday back to TO. We have to board soon and I will try to phone or e-mail in Vancouver if time alows.

I love you and see you soon at airport in Toronto. BYEEEEE!!!!!!!!




Rev. Soh, KCCA President, and home-stay father, Mr. Shin


Thumbs up to Dad volunteeering to be first parent to speak


More gifts... From sponsor co. CEO "Andy"

Home-stay daughter (above) & home-stay family (below)






Willem & Alex well taken care of by Mrs. Kim, and traditional "cheek pinching" of kids!




Big hug with Luka Rearranging Megan's hairdo

Friday, June 26, 2009

Day 12 - Free Day: Namdeamun Market & time with home-stay Shin family - June 26, 2009

Hi Guys,

Our sleeps on normal beds (with mattresses) have been very good.

The mother of the home-stay family (who has been so good to us) came to pick us up at 11am this morning. Alex didn't feel like going out this morning - I guess travel is catching up with him. But after some play with the other kids he was okay. It was a hot and muggy day today. We took a taxi over to Namdeamun Market to try to shop for souvenirs and gifts to bring back home. Alex wanted to be carried on my neck the whole time, but I did manage to do some shopping from my list. However, I couldn't keep Alex out in this heat, and in this busy place that was not fun to him very long. We stayed there maybe 2 hours. (Sorry, couldn't buy another hanbok.)

After Namdeamun Market, we went to the Shin family's neighbourhood where Alex got a beautiful, Korean style haircut (also got a bleeding nose there as well). We also had lunch in one of the local restaurants eating rice rolls like the ones we made at our last Lunar New Year party.

Now Alex is chilling out at the "Shin's" and watching some TV, and getting more spoiled by Mrs. Kim (married women here keep their maiden name). I'm planning to take them out for dinner like I did yesterday as well, but I'm also trying to make it not too late since it is going to be a long trip back home.

Tomorrow is the farewell ceremony, together with the sponsor and home-stay families. Then we will have a short lunch and off to the airport we go. Korea will be missed by Alex and I, but it will be nice to see Derek and Mama again. We miss you guys a lot and wish you could have experienced this with us.

Love from both of us and see you Saturday.
Alex and Willem
XOXOXOXOXOXO

Thursday, June 25, 2009

DAY 9 - Je-Ju Island - June 23, 2009

DAY 10 & 11 - Leaving Jeju Island, The Blue House, and In-Sa dong area - June 24 & 25, 2009

Landed in Seoul on Wednesday evening and made our way to Centenial Memorial Church Hotel. Thursday morning, we went to visit the Blue House (The Presidential Residence). After we went to lunch with the Korean Canadian Culture Exchange Association, then to quaint Insadong area to do some shopping (antiques, galleries, restaurants, tea houses).

We met up with home-stay family for a bit who showed us around more. It was a hot day (around the 30C). They bought Alex a tradition loose Korean outfit, and a friendship ring with the names of their kids engraved on it and sais that they will always remenber Alex! I took them out for dinner because they have been so good to us. I have told them that our house will always be open to them.

We also met up with Derek (father of a family living in Seoul for 6 months) and got (and payed close to 40000 won cash for) Tony's pendant with Dad in hangul on it. Will have to find a bank now to cash more money. I will try to do my best to get a hanbok for Julie, but still have to work on my shopping list for the first time and given only so much time on this very buys trip (plus need time to pack with all the extras Alex has received!).

I have to sign off quickly. Love, Alex and Willem

ADDENDUM:
Alex, Mrs. Kim (home-stay mother), and I went to the same "Old Teahouse" that we had been in back in 2004 - Alex liked it! (Note from Mom: This teahouse had live birds flying through the woodsy decorated room and a pedestal, birdbath-like fish bowl with goldfish in it in the bathroom - also the first toilet I encountered with all the buttons that had me worried as to how I was going to use it until I saw a regular flush handle!;)

The dinner we had consisted of some style of thick BBQ bacon (Note from Mom: Just what you need!;)




Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Derek spoke to Papa & Alex for first time - Mr. & Master Congeniality

In our goodnight time, and Papa and Alex's good morning time, Derek had an animated conversation about the time difference with - Are you eating breakfast now? (always thinking about food!;). It was very cute to hear Derek talk so excitedly on the phone. He has does some maturing himself while his brother and Daddy have been away...

Spoke with travelling Mom to Leevi, Janet, as well. Had already heard that Mom to Liam voted Willem as Mr. Congeniality and "very helful" (I had a rebuttal for latter point!;), but now heard that Alex was also known as little Master Congeniality himself! Of course, Mom is not surprised as Alex has always enjoyed people so much. Was asking Willem about his shopping and hanbok prucahse and he started explaining how he already had 2 hanboks, when only needed to buy one, and that was because home-stay mother bought them and that Willem was being teased about her having a thing for him... That's when I got Janet on the phone to clarify;). Apparently the home-stay mother can't do enough for my men and wants to see them again before they return - poor Willem may go into withdrawal when he returns and is faced with a honey-do list instead!;). Yes, "very helpful" Willem left me with outdoor water not turned on yet, no pump for pool as he forgot it in the U.S. during his last visit to friends, his new company van is already condemmable for the kids to ride in by Mom's point of view... Mom deserves a vacation now too after all the trip preparations and holding the ship on her own (hired a grass mower!).

After lots of "I love you's" and "I miss you" from all, we ended the call counting 4 more sleeps for us,a nd 3 more for them.

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

DAY 8 - Hyundai Automobile Industry & Travel to Jeju Island - June 22, 2009

Our day started with a tour of the Hyundai Automobile Industry (Willem - give more detail later please). Later, we would on our way to Jeju Island (UNESCO heritage site)

Flight to Jeju island was fine and short with a little turbulence. Boarded a bus to our condo. We arrived at the condo at about 9:30 pm.at a beautiful resort hotel. The room is nice, but nothing like a 3-star hotel in North America . We still sleep on the floor but I was able to gather 3 floor mattresses! This now feels very comfy vs. the marble bed we had in the previous condo! Next day the touring will start at 9 am "sharp" and breakfast will be in our room for the 2 other rooms.

First, we went to a gorgeous waterfall where a river falls into the ocean (still a little ways away, but probably already salt). It is also a protected habitat for the giant molted eel. We took several pictures at the waterfall and reaaly enjoyed the site. At the entrance of the waterfall were restaurants and souvenir shops. We ate a fabulous lunch at one of the restaurants - some meat, fish, kimchi dishes, and leaves for wrapping.

Our next stop was a Korean folklore museum. In Jeju island, the old houses are made of lava rock and thatched roofs. The had a maze there that the kids really enjoyed and they had performances as well.

Our last stop was an extinct volcano - the one you know from the Korean calendar. The approach to the mountain was breathtaking!. Then we had to hike a half hour to the top and Alex was the first one there of course, sweating his head off. Just beautiful to be up so high and see all around you , and the circle inside of the extinct volcano was amazing, but hard to capture on camera. Guess who the first one down was? Yes, Alex. He had a ball.

After the climb, we went further down to the shore where there were "dive women" (something Jeju is known for) that were cleaning their catch to order. Andy Park, the CEO who travels with us (the drill sergeant) ordered octopus and a variety of other fish like sea cucumber and anemones. Except for the octopus, you eat everything raw. We ate raw fish and drank Korean wine on the rocks by the sea while the kids played on the rocks, along with some adults that were scared of the raw fish! The kids were collecting smooth glass pieces.

For dinner that night, we had black pig in one of those traditional buildings built from lava rock and thatched roofs. Alex bit in a piece of hot pepper and ate it! Oh boy... He didn’t like that and I am sure that regular spicy food will taste mild to him now!

Back at the hotel at 9 pm, we all went to the beautiful yellow sand beach which was walking distance. Alex played in the waves and was covered from head-to-toe with sand. He had a lot of fun playing with his new friends. We lit up some simple fireworks and the kids had some sparklers.

Tomorrow we are going back to Seoul in the late afternoon and Andy Park has given us some private time in the morning. However, we need to be packed and downstairs by 12 pm for some more touring.

Hope that all is well there on your side of the ocean and I will try to catch up with e-mail later because I have to go to bed now.






More current pic added to Happy Father's Day + this pic

I just have to add this pic to Alex's blog (hope I am not breaking any copyrights... After all, it is of my son and my possible future daughter-in-law!;). This pic appears on Rosa's blog (appearing with Alex). She apparently calls Alex her lil' hubby and Alex replied when asked why he wouldn't marry her, that "it wouldn't be fair to the other girls"!;). Big thanks to Rosa for being so good to him! Mom, Christine


Monday, June 22, 2009

What Derek did on Father's Day - June 21st

On this very warm and sunny first day of summer and Father's Day, we went to Ajax's Waterfront Festival (Whitby's Town Festival next weekend).
Again the police had a demonstration set-up with landing helicopter again, and this time we also saw an old-fashioned police car (like a black cab in London, England) and an RV they use as a central post for large disasters or crime scenes.
Watch out for Mama when you return!
There were also many inflatable bouncing castles, face painting and henna tatooing (Lyn got one), games for prizes, vending booths, and a great DJ band playing all the music I grew up to - you bet I boogied!;). I got a bag of chocolates for it and Derek a chocolate orange ball. You have got to see Derek's new dance moves with break-dancing shouder move and one-foot dance step!;). In the largest bouncy castle with slide, another mother and I were almost crying from laughing so hard! They let the smaller kids go in alone together and there was one a wee smaller than Derek and his mother was worried whether he could get up the steps to slide. I told her our monkey could probably help him... It was hilarious to see Derek trying manage the steps himself while helping the younger boy up the inflatable steps by pushing his bum! If only I knew how to use video function on cell phone quickly... They both made it and came down the short but steep slide in one quick swoop!
Derek's second driving lesson was on a much smaller course. He almost mowed Mom down as I was trying to prevent him from running over a cone!
You also have to see his swing to throw rocks (not smaller stones!;) in the water. He winds up his arm going around and around, and around some more... then threw some pretty far! A definite future baseball pitcher!;)
ALEX - You will get some cotton candy too at the next event, Canada Day, when you get home! (It was a small version of the cone).
Ajax's Rotary Park right by the water is great and we have to go back! Besides large playgym with new apparatus (apparati?) we haven't previously seen or tried, and splash pad, it has a great walking/biking dirt trail with long, wooden bridge, a marsh where we can lug canoe or kayak to, a geese hang-out, large drift wood, and of course, the rock launching pad!

Derek is saying he is missing you more often now... We send you more of our love, hugs and kisses. XOXOXOXOXOXOX





See update to DAY 3 and new DAY 4

DAY 4 - Practising Traditional Korean Arts: Paper craft & Mask dance - June 18, 2009

Quick one again...Went with subway to Gannam district (same district 2 subway stops away from SWS and across from COEX Mall).

Learned about meaning of the mask dance and then kids and adults taught to do one part of the dance. Very good work out and lots of fun! After we learned how to do this dance, we got a private performance. Then were asked who wanted to go up on stage to get dressed up for pictures. It was me who went up and got dressed up with mask and all and had to do the dance! I was sweating a lot because your breath stays in the mask and you can hardly see anything.

After this, we had a pizza lunch in the same building and went on to do a Korean craft, which was making a traditional trinket box. We saved one to bring back home for Derek! It was a bit of a messy affair but kids had a lot of fun.

Then we spent 1 hour in COEX Mall and returned by subway. The host family "SHIN" picked us up at a subway stop in main Seoul. The host family was extremely nice to us and seem to adore us! They want to see us again before we leave back home.

Love you and a big kiss to you and Derek! Alex and Willem (Papa)
NOT Willem... But will post as soon as Mom gets a photo!!!

Sunday, June 21, 2009

DAY 6 - Seoraksan National Park - June 20, 2009

Sleeping was uncomfortable and hot because we turned on the floor heating by mistake! The floor heater was also for the hot water, hence turning it off the floor heater will give you a cold shower!

In rain, we were off to Mount Seokguram. Went almost to the top by gondola and hiked further to the top by foot. Alex liked the hike and had a blast. (Willem - how was the view?). There was also a Buddhist temple which Alex and I visited. Alex had his picture taken with the monk who gave him a lollipop. Alex gave him a Canadian/Korean friendship pin. Down from the mountain, they sold silk worms to eat and other snail-like things - didn't try it!
(Mom adding that this Buddhist temple, as per Leevi's blog... had a golden Bhudda and is the most revered site for Buddhists as is The Vatican for Catholics. And, they went to a grotto to see an ancient and highly revered, unearthed Bhudda -archeology usually being of great interest to Willem, so should have more details later!;).

After we went to a giant supermarket with food court and had lunch there. Sampled lots of food there. We boarded the bus again for a 5-hour bus ride to the south (skipping one stop because of the rain). Checked in the hotel condo and shared it again with the Muther's. Off to bed for church at 9am tomorrow, Sunday.

Running out of time on this computer. Hope to send you some pictures soon from my laptop.

Love you
Alex and Willem

DAY 5 - Participating in traditional Korean culture; Paper craft and Korean mask dance - June 19, 2009 (DAY 4 later)

Trying to type quickly on internet-paid connection in a basement as time is running out fast...

Had a beautifull last breakfast with host family. Found out later that their younger boy was crying and already missing Alex (WILLEM - What is boy's name?) Said our goodbyes and went with the taxi to the sponsor company hwere we meet every day. .Boarded a bus and the host mom was waving goodbye for a long time (WILLEM - How did you and Alex feel? Did you exchange contacts?).

Went to Korean Folk Museum and saw wonderful Korean dances and traditional wedding ceremony. Had lunch at the market of the museum. Also visited the jail where Alex went into the head locks and kids played in the old Korean farm setup (For more details on this very popular and interesting tourist attraction... Mom suggests you read Liam's and Leevi's blogs!;).

Then we were off on a 3-1/2 bus ride to the east coast. Arrived just before sunset and played on the beach right in front of the restaurant where we going to eat Korean style sashimi. Lots of live fish and squid in aquariums for consumption, not for decor! After, went to the hotel condo where we shared a traditional room with the Muther family of 4 travellers, sleeping on traditional Korean floor mattresses/pads on heated floors.

Derek wants to send hugs and kisses

Derek just heard about our telephone call last night while he was sleeping. He wants to send this:
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
derek
905_ _ _ _ _ _ _ (Derek wants to say and write his phone number all the time now that he knows it well)
alex

Saturday, June 20, 2009

DAY 7 - HURRAY!!! Finally got a telephone contact! - June 21, 2009 in Korea

Mom here... After not hearing anything from my boys for over 3 days, I was starting to feel a tinge of worry...!
Tried calling again and this time not only got a ring, but got Willem! Also was able to speak to my dear Alex for the first time... I tear writing this! Time - 23:45 Saturday in Canada, 11:45 Sunday in Korea.
Anyway, the communication problem has been two-fold. Uncharged batteries and time... If you've been reading the others' blogs, you will have read how this trip is orchestrated to a tee by one mother, and planned to the minute by another mother. Kelly, you'll love this - Willem says it is not a Motherland Tour, but an intense, yet highly enjoyable, Korean boot camp!;). And I would have been off this trip very early on, as I no longer have any doubts about. Even at the 4-day home-stay, the family kept them busy till late at night pleasing them by showing them this and that, restaurants, etc. These must be the most hospitable people in the world!
Willem says the travelling group is fantastic, children young and old are getting along fabulously, and of course, everyone loves Alex!;) Rosa Park, the young adult translator/organizer for the trip, refers to him as "her husband" apparently. He is hanging out most with Liam and Leevi, the other bloggers we are following. And, as hoped ... This is turning out to be an experience of a lifetime for Alex as he is soaking in all the sights and culture. He will have grown so much next time I see him, in just 2 weeks... How bittersweetly proud and happy for him, I am!
They had time to write all their postcards today, but apparently don't know when there will be time again to get postage for them!;)
Sunday (DAY 7 of trip - there is a lot of catching up to do from DAY 3, but Willem has been trying to keep notes while on the tour bus), they went to a morning worship service. And who did "someone from Korea" interview after the service, but Willem...!;). He was asked how often he attended church... His diplomatic answer - "irregularly"!;)
My Alex... His first question to me after I finished gushing to him about how happy I was to hear him, loved him, was proud of him, was... What is Derek doing?! Actually, it was "how" is Derek doing... My nurturing, yet don't want to be missing anything despite my own overflowing schedule, son!;). I told him that every morning when Derek and I got up, we said " goodnight Alex and Daddy", and before we went to bed, "good morning Alex and Daddy". Alex was eating lunch and although I couldn't quite understand what he said he was eating, it had sauce on it and they were going to bring me back some - Ha, ha Mama!
Alex suggested that Daddy could be the tour guide when Derek and I come visit - I replied that it could very likely be him, and I don't doubt that.
Finally, I told them that I have been keeping their blog active and they "hoped" to be able to see it soon!;)
A late goodnight from me and a mid-day "hello" from Alex and his Dad.

Look what Derek did today - June 20th here

The Whitby Fire Departement Headquaters at McKinney fire station hosted a Fire Safety Day (and many other safety subjects and demonstrations). They will have this again next year so you can expeirence it too, Alex. Derek learned a lot. There were many things being given away, like tatoos, stickers, game and colouring books and we got some of each for you too. Alex (except for the cupcake!;). Now if Mom is ever stuck in a collapsed basement with the wiring over her, she will know how to "swim" out of it. I forgot to ask what I would do next to get out from the 2 stories above me?;).
Hope Alex and Daddy have a very special Father's Day together in Korea! We do miss you, but are so proud of and happy for you! Happy first day of summer too!
Lots of love, Mom and Derek XOXOXOXOX







HAPPY FATHER'S DAY - June 21st in Korea

Hi Daddy! HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!! I chose this photo to send of your 2 boys. Today, you can open up my card and present - I hope you wear it and take a picture of that so that I can see it.

I miss you Daddy and Alex!

Mommy and I LOVE YOU!!!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo


Friday, June 19, 2009

Derek's Report Card - June 2009

Quote ;)
"Derek has a very pleasant personality and adapted well to his new environment. He is a happy child and is very confident when he is working with the Montessori apparatus. Derek is very keen to learn and has focussed a lot of effort and attention towards his work. He is always very happy and lively in class and has acquired many friends. Good start Derek!"

Congratulalions Derek and everyone is very proud of you! Mommy


Thursday, June 18, 2009

Derek's Montessori "Pre-School" Graduation Day - June 17, 2009

This was Derek's first show in front of a crowd and he did very well, despite stating he felt shy. He stood and sat well, followed directions as expected from our school angel, and used hand motions with the few songs sang.
This year's Montessori show was quite different from past ones with very few songs and more certificte handing for those going to Grade 1 next year, then again for all the students for completing this year. He was asked to wear orange, which happens to be his good colour, the Dutch colour, and Mom's favorite colour.
Clever friend, Sophia, coached Derek to take the photo with Mommy so if he "pleased Mommy", Mommy would then "please him" (and Sophia!;) by bringing him to Music in the Park that evening (it rained...)
VERY PROUD OF YOU DEREK !!! Mom
















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